Life has many adaptations; sometimes you are right, sometimes wrong, retaliate and once in a while, you fall in love. Retaliation and love cannot live together as like right and wrong, you have to choose one.
In one period of time, you cannot retaliate against the person you love the most; this makes sense. But when you want to set scores with the one you once loved on top or you still feel for him, though doesn’t make sense but sensible people have to change their designation when it comes to love and retaliation or both at the same time. 
You have to embrace these new rather unique adaptations of life probably during the transitional period from worship to revenge. When someone hurts you so deeply that you couldn’t find space to breathe then by adopting the basic human nature which only wants happiness to live, you get rid of this pain. Later on, your ego that you thought you have murdered is alive again to let you know that you are being affronted by the one you once loved the most.
I’ve gone through Euripides, Medea’s saying “Stronger than lover’s love is lover’s hate. Incurable, in each, the wounds they make”. I do believe that “The Most Strongest is the Lover’s Love and the most dangerous is the Lover’s Hate”.
So my dear members of the loving family, what you will do if you have to face a situation like this?
If you ask me I would again set my mode on a “waiting status”, instead of doing something disgusting while swimming with the intense emotional flow. I know it’s harder than before because you’ve already waited a lot and that was for something good; you were living in your own created fantasy or illusionary world (rather fool’s paradise) and waiting for your love to come. But now as the bitter world of reality embraced you, it’s not that easy to wait again. Wait, to watch, enjoy and then win this love game. You must have heard that “Silence is the best revenge”. Believe you in me, it surely truly works. You are confident that you have been a loyal and devoted lover and were ready to accept the person with all his flaws and faults, but now your love is at risk.. and when it’s at risk, lose it.
Without giving it a second thought, lose it dear lovers by understanding with open heart and mind that it was not meant for you; instead of being rational or doing some stupidity in hurry. Just wait and see, your time will come; till then keep enjoying your life to its fullest.
“I won’t fight you, it looks puerile to me, but I can ignore and forget you till you wonder if you still exist” Michael Bassey Johnson
Live your new life with a beautiful balance of the fantasy world and the real world. As you are habitual to living in fantasies so it would be almost impossible for you to leave it at once permanently. Don’t let your fantasies die if only a person has left them. Keep drawing beautiful colors in it as you are beautiful and colorful. I believe fantasies help you in coping with harsh realities, it gives you a reason to smile and hope, which is the basic ingredient to living a balanced life. It gives you strength & positive approach that you haven’t lost all, you still have your attractive world to welcome the new beginnings and the New one.. I would recommend rather request you to please don’t leave this place of your top most loved one unfulfilled. Fill it as per God’s decision. After experiencing your own decision which was pretty fine you have decided for yourself, but now it’s time to welcome that is coming directly from God’s side.
Being the most beautiful creature on this planet earth, while possessing a golden heart and a special thinking model, leave the painful things and people in your past to move ahead, to welcome the new gifts that are coming naturally your way. You are the ambassador of love; keep spreading love and good wishes to everyone around you.
“You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams”. Dr. Seuss.
(Written in November 2015)
